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First Responders & Your Child

Make it easier for the people helping your child to understand how your child communicates, what may be frightening, and what works. Adapt every step to your child. In an immediate emergency, call 911.

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For parents and caregivers

Prepare the details before you need them

Keep a current full-body photo, clothing description, emergency contacts and a private child profile on your phone. Include communication method, whether your child speaks or responds to their name, sensory triggers, calming strategies, favorite objects, wandering history, attraction to water or transit if relevant, medical needs, and tracker details. Update the profile when anything changes.

Example for 911: “My child is autistic and nonspeaking. He may not respond to his name or follow verbal directions. He may run if approached quickly. One calm person speaking at a time works best.”

Change that script to fit your child. Tell the dispatcher immediately about any known pull toward water, trains, traffic, or another hazard. Share the child’s last location and photo. A registry or GPS device never replaces a 911 call.

For children

Practice finding a trusted helper

Use pictures, modeling, role play or a communication device when those fit your child. Practice a few useful messages:

I am lost.I need help.Call my caregiver.Here is my ID.

Point out recognizable helpers together: police, firefighters, EMTs, crossing guards, transit employees, security staff, teachers, and identifiable workers. Practice showing an ID card, bracelet or device. A child who cannot use these steps still needs an adult-led safety plan; do not assume the child can ask for help.

For families and trusted adults

Give everyone the same clear plan

Siblings, grandparents, babysitters, respite workers, school staff and other trusted caregivers should know where the current photo and private profile are stored, who calls 911, who watches exits and nearby hazards, and who can share a tracker location. Keep backup contacts current. Practice what to do if the child wanders from home, school, a bus, camp or an outing.

Share only the information each caregiver needs. Store full medical and contact details privately, not on a public post.

For first responders

Consider communication and sensory needs

An autistic or nonspeaking child may not respond to their name, make eye contact or follow verbal commands; may need more processing time; may run, hide, repeat sounds, move toward danger, or be overwhelmed by sirens, lights or unexpected touch. They may be unable to give a name or address or communicate pain and fear in a familiar way. These responses should not be assumed to be deliberate noncompliance.

When circumstances permit, use one calm speaker and short directions, allow processing time, reduce unnecessary lights and sirens, avoid unnecessary contact, ask a caregiver what helps, and look for ID or communication information. This applies to police, fire, EMS, traffic and transit personnel, school safety, security and community responders.

Wandering and environmental risks

Search the places that matter for this child

Water

Pools, ponds, lakes, rivers, beaches, bays, marinas, reservoirs, waterfronts and fountains. Some autistic children are strongly attracted to water; many are not.

Rail and transit

Subways, LIRR, Metro-North, railroad tracks, platforms, stations and crossings.

Roadways

Streets, highways, parkways, expressways, bridges and parking areas.

Other places

Parks, woods, trails, schools, malls, stores, hospitals, arenas, events and unfamiliar buildings. These risks exist across all supported counties, not just cities.

Verified local starting points

Programs and emergency contacts by area

Ask each program about eligibility, enrollment and current availability. These programs have different purposes; none guarantees a search or replaces 911.

Putnam

Putnam Text-to-911 when a voice call cannot be made. Call 911 if you can; do not assume a child can text independently.

Bergen, Hudson, Passaic & Essex, NJ

NJ Register Ready is a statewide special-needs registry for disaster planning and response. It is voluntary and confidential; registration does not guarantee assistance and does not replace 911. Ask your local emergency management office about additional community programs.

Keep on your phone, in a car, backpack or emergency folder

First Responder Information Sheet

Fill in a copy privately. Use your browser’s Print / Save as PDF option for a downloadable copy. Keep it updated and share only with people who need it.

Child’s name and current photo:
Caregiver and backup contacts:
Communication and name response:
Approach that works / triggers:
Favorite calming item or interest:
Medical needs and important instructions:
Wandering and known hazards:
Tracker / last known location details: